PACER repair framework

Climaxing with Gottman-based repair, attachment cycles, and de-escalation micro-skills. Today's reads add a communication red flags article (ex-b0d23e75) highlighting the pattern of wanting closeness without hard talks—a key repair obstacle. Also supported by earlier reads on benching, self-sabotage reframe, avoidant partner strategies, conversation starters, cohabitation intentionality, boundary scripts, self-trust tools, fault-finding, explaining yourself, small arguments, divorce recovery, healthy conflict, and 7 questions for connection. The 7 signs of unhappy partner and polished dating red flag also indirectly support early detection for repair.