The Science of Social Connection
Key Questions
What is Dunbar's number and how does it relate to social networks?
Dunbar's number describes cognitive limits on the number of meaningful friendships people can maintain. It explains the layered structure of social connections favoring quality over quantity.
How long does it take to build close friendships according to the 11-3-6 rule?
The rule suggests significant time investment is needed, with most people having around four close friends as a sweet spot. Articles stress intention and consistent effort for turning casual ties into close ones.
Why prioritize quality over quantity in friendships?
Cognitive limits mean deeper connections require focused time and vulnerability rather than spreading efforts thin. This approach leads to more satisfying social networks.
Dunbar's number and the layered structure of social networks are discussed in two articles, offering concrete insights into why we have cognitive limits on friendships and how to prioritize quality over quantity. The friendship timing article reinforces the idea that close friendships require significant time investment (11-3-6 rule) and that most people have a sweet spot of four close friends.